Your future will consist of hurting those you love. You made a commentment to your husband when you married him. You kids are counting on you to do the right thing.
Would you want your kids to act in the fashion that you have? Does a commentment mean anything to you. I think you know what the truth is, you want someone to tell you otherwise.
You have put yourself in a situation that has to be answered. You need to figure which one you want to be with but remember no matter what someone is going to get hurt!.
The future, the present, and the past, has nothing to do with fortune or your birth-date, or that of your husband, or this other man, who like you, is selling his honour. The way you are behaving also has nothing to do with birth-dates or fortune, it is how you have decided to behave and only you have control of that.
You know what, there will never be an excuse for cheating not even love. Cause real love doesn't cause pain and you are causing yourself, your family and your loved one so much pain.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.